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6 Dec 2012 at 6:55:05 AM
Hi Joey,

I am a huge fan of yours and I am so intrigued by this study of Bazi. I also love the recorded MelodyFM programs! Unfortunately due to timing and location I haven't had the opportunity to attend any of your personal talks. I know one day I will have the chance. I hope my question gets picked and thank you so much in advance.

I think my life has been quite blessed so far however in the recent years, I find myself at a huge crossroad. There are big decisions I need to make about my life soon, and I cannot stop myself from making a feminist decision.

The personal aspect in my life is forcing me to make a choice between life partner and country, career and financial status. As you can probably read from my chart, I am too selfish to give up all that I have for something that has no guarantee. My personal relationship with my partner has also been unconventional and somewhat extraordinary - my life events seem to unfold in a similar way to his but 2 years later! How do you explain that? At the same time I feel like I am causing distress/misfortune in my partner's life.

1. Does my chart show that I am an unfavourable spouse to my partner? (I am still unable to identify presence of spouse stars in my chart).

2. My biggest question is.. should I take a "leap of faith" and quit my career, move countries (back to Malaysia), get married, and concentrate on supporting my partner in the coming year of Water Snake? My 5 structure shows that I am a terrible supporter. I also have a big financial commitment that will need support from others should I lose my income and I do not wish to rely on my future husband to fill that gap. I am also worried I will be laden with financial difficulties late in life.

3. My DM indicates I am unable to focus / finish what I started doing and I have felt that too. How do you recommend I overcome this weakness? I have great intentions to learn Bazi in depth via your books and online lessons however due to the depth and complexity I fear I will give up before I even start.

4. I will consider this a bonus question: do you think I have a good chart?

Thank you so much Joey. I really appreciate it.
29 Nov 2012 at 12:01:13 PM
Hi Mr Joey Yap,

I watched your Astro show during CNY, I'm enlighten by you and since then I have been following your FB and your whereabout. Hope I can attend one of your seminar. I am a Malaysian working in Singapore. My life has been difficult and I almost went into bankrupt, and now I'm still carrying huge debts. I remembered you said that BaZi can only let people know about the talents that we born with but couldn't help us to get rich. I full agreed it but I don't know what talents i have, I am confused and feel myself is useless, I have tried many industries but all turn out nothing good. Could you please give me some guidence? What I am good at? What business that suit me? How can I be a successful person? Thanking you.
29 Nov 2012 at 5:37:44 PM
Dera Joey Could you pls Tell about the theory of flying stars for southern hemisphere Best Regrds Elena
28 Sep 2012 at 11:37:42 PM
Dear Joey, I have completed your feng shui mastery course, and have read many of your books including Pure Feng Shui, Personal Date Selection,Destiny Code Revealed, Art of Face Reading and I am always buying more. I just cannot get enough of your wonderful and refreshing way of teaching.Your abilities and your knowledge seem to be far beyond your years. 

 I have two questiions: 

1) When will you come to Canada again?

 2) When a garage is attatched to a rectangular shaped house, do we include it as part of the actual house in determining direction locations? eg north 2 facing house with garage attached om NE side, as a continuation of the home (like it's another room, extending the house eastward, along the front) 

 Thank you very much, in advance! Cheers and all the best from Canada. 

8 Oct 2012 at 12:24:15 PM
Dear Joey, You write fantastic Bazi Books,hope you can speed up more. I have been following Bazi books for the last ten over years, however, I wish you can write on another series after Bazi books i.e. Zi Wei Dou Shu. If possible, can you please let me know where to get hold of Tieh Pan Shen Shu( Iron Abacus Astology) which is believed to be the most accurate of all. Keep up the good work I-ron Li
16 Oct 2012 at 11:17:45 AM
Hi Joey,

I have read 3 of your books (Bazi The Destiny Code, Feng Shui for Homebuyers - Interior & Exterior). They are helping me to be more understand about Bazi & Feng Shui now.I will re-read again because I only understand 65% of the content.
I wish you could help me to confirm my favourable element as I am not very sure about that.


5 Oct 2012 at 6:52:47 PM
Hi Joey Yap: 

 I'm interested in your upcoming seminar in Penang on 27th Jan 2012. But before registering the seminar further i would like to understand if i need to have a minimun knowledge with regards to Feng Shui and others? I'm currently know nothing. Also if it is at all possible, can i understand what career fit me. 

 Best Regards Siew Ying
19 Sep 2012 at 8:15:49 PM
Hi Joey

Greetings! Hoping you will have a time to asnwer my question. I am just curious with my luck pillars. Based on my chart I have a weak GENG daymaster. Also, I have good wealth stars.

My questions is:
Based on my luck pillar, 34 years old and beyond will be good in wealth. I am suffering right now financially. Worried everyday if I can pay my debt. I am having sleepless nights. I would just want to know if I still need to wait until I reach 34 years old until wealth will be good?

Hope to hear from you soon.
Thank you

24 Sep 2012 at 12:36:29 PM
Dear Joey Yap,

I have purchased your Bazi books - all four. They are clearly written and concise. Currently, I am reading book number three.

I am analysing my Bazi chart and confuse about my favourable elements in the chart. Are my favourable elements fire and earth? OR, metal and water? I notice I have a lot of metal and water in the chart.

Hope to hear from you soon.

24 Sep 2012 at 4:09:09 PM
Dear Joey,

I am new in FS. Actually, it is my daughter who is an avid fan of yours. She is also new in FS. She dreams of attending one of your english seminars soon in KL. She reads and searches in the internet about your write-ups.
I have a few questions. Hope you have the time to answer it.

1.). For the past 3 years, I am quite feeling low because last 2010 I suffered a stroke and the past 2 years business was not doing good. I would like to ask if you could see any good in my wealth and health?

2.). I have been planning to sell a property which could help me and my family financially. Do you think it is a good idea? I have been thinking since price of property might go up and of course I want to have a good price for it.

Hope to hear from you soon.
More power to you!

25 Sep 2012 at 11:42:06 AM
My daughter who is nine this year has been asking me to send her for singing lessons recently. She also mentioned that she wanted to be a singer in the future. Out of curiosity, does her bazi has the elements to support her "ambition". The DOB keyed in belongs to her. Thank you
16 Sep 2012 at 12:52:58 AM
Dear Joey,

I have bought and read countless times the Bazi Destiny Code Series 1 to 5, and Fengshui for apartment buyers. I enjoyed reading them tremendously. Thank you so much for writing the book.

Based on my understanding, on my Bazi chart, I desperately need Bing Fire but I was born in Ox hour. I tried to improve my people skills and tried to be humble as much as possible, but my colleages at work often back stabbed me. When I tried to be kind to other people, they will take advantage me for granted.

In your 5th Book, you mentioned Bing fire cannot be produce by wood. Therefore, I have been reading the fengshui for apartment buyer, and still no answer in how improving the quality of Bing Fire. Please help!

Thank you, and kind regards,
Amelia Ho
20 Sep 2012 at 4:15:46 AM
Hello Joey,

I've bought some of your books and loved them! I'm a big fan! I plan to attend your seminars when I'm back in Asia next year.

I'm currently taking jewelry design courses. A lot of people have discouraged me saying that I will not succeed in this industry because of the poor economy. Would you advise me to pursue it? Would it be better to focus on costume or fashion jewelry instead of high-end? What industry is best suited for me?

Hope to hear your advice!

Regards and more power,

21 Sep 2012 at 8:31:33 PM
Dear Joey,

*** Bazi question ***
If you do happen to pick this letter, then I wish to let you know this would be the best thing that ever happen to me since 2007.
I've been through a very rough times for a few years.

In 2001 I've lost my job because the company I've worked for went backrupt.
Then 10years later in 2011, history repeat itself, I once again lost my job because the similar reason.

Question : I am not sure if I should start my own business, or work for someone again.

I do have a strong interest in Fengshui, I've been reading books on and off for the past 5 years (I've bought alot of your books and calendar whenever I get to transit in Kuala Lumpur). Eventually when I have enough savings I would love to participate many of your courses in Singapore so I can also look into doing Fengshui consulation as my other career.

As you can see I am really confuse, please give me some guidance.

THank you sincerely.
I Chiu
13 Sep 2012 at 5:25:40 PM
Dear Joey,

 I've 2 questions to consult you and hope you can find time to answer me and allay my fear. A Buddhist Thai monk told me if I want to avoid another divorce with my current husband, I've to deliver my son on 27th November 2012 between 11am to 4pm. I went to read up all your Destiny books and Ten Gods and from this bazi, its self element is very very strong. However I do note that its wood elemental values is also strong. From your Bazi Ming Pan, there are 4 wood and 5 water. And the month palace represents parents, can I say this Thai monk is right in the sense that the self element of Yang Water on this day does not clash with the Earthly branch Yin Water Hai? So this child does not cause conflict to his parents.

However I'm worried too that his early years from 3 to teenage years will be difficult as his luck pillars is going through water and he is already a strong water.

So I'm now contradicting myself. Do I want a stable marriage after the birth of this child or cause the child to have a difficult childhood years?

Please please help me cast some light on this matter as 2 more months I'll be due.

Thank-you for your time.

Li nah
12 Sep 2012 at 1:02:08 PM
Dear Joey,

I'm a regular at your seminars yearly. I've bought books and full set of the DVD on face readings. Problems is I like to buy when I'm interested but it will be stored on my shelves only. The ones I frequently use so far are the calendars and the Tong Shu Planners which I love best as it is simple to understand, direct, and very useful for me to plan. I like to give them out as gifts.

I've also paid a RM100/- deposit for the Bazi course back in 2007/08 after seminar or so but misplaced the receipt, so I didnt go for it after that.

My questions are:-

1. My husband is born on 20 June 1963, and he has schizorprenia (depression) and blood disorder which was within control with medication, and due to it, he always wanted rest most of the time, refusing to work, or help out with housework and taking care of baby, always taunting me with insults whenever I ask for any help. My question is whether his Bazi shows that he will remain a "headache" character" for lifetime?

2. I have an adopted son, 18 December 2009. His biological parents have social and drugs problem. My questions are:
i. is he compatible with me?
ii. does he have any problems with his Bazi? eg. sickness, lazyness, etc

3. I'm still keen to adopt another one from the same biological parents as the new baby was ignored and abandoned again. He is born on 14 August 2012 (09.09am). My questions are:-
i. is he compatible with me?
ii. does he have any problems with his Bazi? sickness, lazyness, etc.

Thank you.

Mei Chin
27 Aug 2012 at 2:22:55 PM
Hi Joey,

I have been a student of yours first through Donna Collins here in Dallas, Tx
back in 2007/08. I took the first level of BaZi with her and the second level with TK from Singapore. I am a massage therapist and have been self-emplyoeed for 16 years (registered since 1991). I have been taking various other courses in other interests such as homeopathy, and I like alternative methods of healing and assisting others.

I have read the 4 Destiny Code books as well as The 10 Gods, all of which I have been studying earnestly as I have a great interest in completing my studies with you for levels 3/4 next year when I hope I can financially afford to. I also have the Ming Pan program and have a number of friends' and celebrities' information that I use to study.

My first question is: Does my chart support the possibility of completing my studies with you next year, and is it a good career move to become a BaZi consultant?

Next, is the possibility of moving out of Dallas, potentially Northern California,
something I might consider? I have family and friends throughout the region, but I have been very nervous about actually moving from Texas since it has been my home most of my life. I am well-traveled and lived abroad as a child. I went to China in 1998 to study Medical Qi Gong for my practice, but the obstacle I have is finding the clientelle receptive to alternative therapies.

Thank you for your brilliant wisdom and direction.

Laura Utrecht

28 Aug 2012 at 12:43:30 PM
I am currently designing my friends home. Bought a vacant land in Mukim Petaling. I need your expert advise desperately...been reading too many variations that my head is about to explode. Her name is Jessie and DOB as shown above. p/s: your books were the most readable by the way! 

 Here goes: I would like to incorporate the necessary requirements ie location of main door, kitchen and bedroom. Its will be a 3x3 square home. I have 4 questions if you could help me please. 

 1) Is NE facing for a main door really a demon's gate? Or the option of shifiting it to North is better? (note house and main door facing will be the same) 

2) Can I place the staircase in a bad sector? 

3) Can I have courtyards in a bad sector? 

4) Is it okay to have a shallow koi pond in front of house and wrapping along dragon side(east) of house? Looking forward to your advice! 

Thanks!! J
11 Aug 2012 at 10:05:11 PM
Dear Joey,

 I live in UAE with my family and happened to come across this wonderful concept of fengshui a few years back. Back then we never had any good things coming our way. It was a difficult time.Life got better since i started practsicing the basic aspects of FS and now i am a great believer of FS. Symbolic feng shui was only what i had come across.But lately i happened to come across your website on the internet and was really fascinated and impressed with your knowledge and clarity of FS and BaZi. 

BaZi is a concept new to me that I cannot interpret.

 Right now my husband and me are hoping to start a small business in my name to pay for our son"s college education. My husband is stuck with an average job and i am unemployed. 

 1. Could you please advise me based on my BaZi whether we be successful if my husband starts a small business in my name and will we have any prospects financially?

 2. Is there any particular month that we could choose to start it? My date of birth is 24 june 1969 time of birth 8:30am Please help me by sharing your valuable thoughts and insights based on my BaZi b"cos i am really scared to take this risk. my husband was born 10 feb 1966 but it is actually planned to be registered in my name. 

I would greatly appreciate your advice. 

 Thank you very much, best regards, SA.
19 Aug 2012 at 11:25:40 PM
Dear Mr Joey Yap, 

I was born in the year of dragon, 1964. I have been warned by friends that I may be having obstacles in life this year. In fact indeed it was very true and came so fast without any warning. I lost my wonderful professional career in May 2012, on my 48 birthday. I could not take it as I was a senior and highest pay employee with good job track record. 

My career is uncertain in the near future and my case was a 'constructive dismissal' situation because I was harassed to leave. I love and enjoy working so much, do you think I could have a new opportunity to have a better carreer path in many years to come? I need your help very much. Please give me some guidance to overcome my difficulty which hurts me very much. I want to shine again in my career in many ways. 

Thank you. Hope to receive your reply
21 Aug 2012 at 8:21:34 PM
Hello Master Yap, 

 My mother is a HUGE fan of yours - she has most of your books and all of your DVDs (it's almost an obsession!). She's been recently studying Ba Zi and, as a result from my teenage curosity, I began to discover the world of feng shui and ba zi as well! 

Although I find it extremely interesting, there are times when we are both stumped with certain aspects of our personal Ba Zi, especially mine. So, I was hoping that you could answer some of our questions: 

1) Am I a weak or a strong day master? ( My mother thinks that I am a strong day master.) 

2) There are two clashes between the month and year pillars, as well as my hour and day pillars. Will this mean that I will have a troublesome marriage? And, also would that suggest that my parents will also have the same problem? 

3) In gerneral, would you say that my life will be 'tough'? 

If yes, what would your advise be? 

 Thanks in advance! JF


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