I've 2 questions to consult you and hope you can find time to answer me and allay my fear. A Buddhist Thai monk told me if I want to avoid another divorce with my current husband, I've to deliver my son on 27th November 2012 between 11am to 4pm. I went to read up all your Destiny books and Ten Gods and from this bazi, its self element is very very strong. However I do note that its wood elemental values is also strong. From your Bazi Ming Pan, there are 4 wood and 5 water. And the month palace represents parents, can I say this Thai monk is right in the sense that the self element of Yang Water on this day does not clash with the Earthly branch Yin Water Hai? So this child does not cause conflict to his parents.

However I'm worried too that his early years from 3 to teenage years will be difficult as his luck pillars is going through water and he is already a strong water.

So I'm now contradicting myself. Do I want a stable marriage after the birth of this child or cause the child to have a difficult childhood years?

Please please help me cast some light on this matter as 2 more months I'll be due.

Thank-you for your time.

Li nah

Based on your BaZi chart, it is possible for you to have a stable marriage with or without your 3rd child. The child is not responsible for the quality of your marriage life.

 YOU ARE. 

There are so many things you could do better as a wife and mom that could easily improve your marriage. Your lack of understanding of your own weakness is the cause. 

Your BaZi shows emotional instability and immaturity. Perhaps you should start by working on these first?

Hope this helps. 

Cheers,

JY