I have started reading your book since 2010. I read your yearly astrology book since 2010. I really enjoy the books. Now i'm exploring into the Bazi concept. I have read your Mian Xiang book, the ten thousand year calendar book and now I'm reading your Bazi the Destiny Code. It's very intriguing.

 I was working and living in Sydney Australia from 2002 til 2007. I was working since 2003 until I quit in 2007 and move back to my country in Indonesia. My job in Sydney was reasonable good in terms of salary but not good in terms of career advancement. Which was why I returned home to seek other opportunities. 

My questions are: 

 1. Since my return in 2007 I have been struggling financially. I tried a few small businesses partnering with some friends but didn't yield any result and were finally shut down. I also invested in a few business opportunities but failed. I just don't know what I have done wrong in my career path that I ended in this situation. How can I correct this? 

 2. Now I'm almost broke financially but a I have a couple of very good friends trying to help me out. I have an older brother and a younger sister who are both doing well financially especially my sister. But they don't give any support or help at all unlike my friends. A FS guru once told me during my life time, none of my family or siblings will help me and thus I can't depend on their support. But my friends will always help me. Does this situation reflect in my Bazi chart? 

 3. I'm getting married soon in September this year. My friends are funding my whole wedding and my family didn't help at all with cost of the wedding. For a few years, my friends had been advising me to get married to change my luck in life. Is this true? 

 4. My soon-to-be-wife is born on 14 Nov 1979 at 01.30. Do we have any conflicts in our Bazi chart? If so, what can I do to resolve the conflicts? 

 5. My Age Limit starts at 4 and now I'm 44 in Chinese Calendar. Does this mean my luck is changing at the same time I'm getting married this year?

 I greatly appreciate if you can give me some advice on my situation. I'm hoping that one day I can attend your Bazi seminar. 

 Thank you, - Erik

Thanks for reading my books. Glad you hear your feedback. 

this is your BaZi Chart based on the DOB you've submitted.  My answers below: 

BaZi Chart 八字 Hour 時 Day 日 Month 月 Year 年 天 干 Heavenly Stems Jia Yang Wood Ding Yin Fire Wu Yang Earth Ji Yin Earth Chen (Dragon) Yang Earth Mao (Rabbit) Yin Wood Chen (Dragon) Yang Earth You (Rooster) Yin Metal 地 支 Earthly Branches Gui Wu Yi 7K HO IR Yi IR Gui Wu Yi 7K HO IR Xin IW 藏 干 Hidden Stems

1) Your IW star (Rooster) is combined away by the Dragon (Hurting Officer Stars). This chart does not favor pure Entrepreneurial pursuits. You can rectify this if you play different role in owning your business. Perhaps you are better as the Artist, or the skilled professional in your business. 

2). Yes it does reflect in your BaZi. You are the only Fire element in the chart. No other Fire element, which represents siblings. But, you should NOT have the wrong mentality of always expecting "help" from others. This is also the reason why you don't do well in your career. 

3). Not true. 

4). There are not many conflicts. But it does show if you do not improve your character weakness, your spouse-to-be may not enjoy her marriage with you. 

5). Your luck does change. But the marriage is not the main cause of your luck improving. 

Warm Regards,

Joey