I have a question. I have seen some fortune tellers in Japan and here in Malaysia. They have told me something that is worrying me a lot. Based on I believe on my BAZI, two versions of stories came out concerning my timing of marriage. In Japan they have told me that I should marry after 35 years old or else I will have a abrupt separation by accident or some abrupt situation. In here Malaysia they have told me before 35 years I should marry or I will have abrupt separation from my partner... Now I am almost 35 or in Chinese year already 35...I have a partner and I am going to marry. However this fact is annoying me very much. 

Do you have any advises or is this showing me in my Bazi? If it is which is the correct version? Thank you

It is not about marrying before or after 35. It's about learning how to control yourself, learning what is the root cause of the possible separation, and then doing all you can to avoid it. That's the reason for a BaZi Reading. The purpose is for you to become BETTER. Not for you to be worried and do nothing. 

The solution lies in YOU. You need to learn what is the cause of your marriage problem. From your chart, it has got to do with your control of emotions and your character. All you have to do, is a be a BETTER person. Be a great wife. Be of great value to your husband. Avoid being an emotional baggage to your husband, a worrisome person, or a lousy wife. Build trust and don't be possessive. 

Hope this helps. 

Warm Regards,

JY