I think it's a really great thing to offer advice on a particular issue as I could not afford a full consultation. However, I'd happily pay a small fee for your advice or donate to your preferred charity.
My issue is that my son and his girlfriend are living with me. They are delightful and easy to get on with; they agree they should contribute financially, in terms of house work, and that they should work/go back to study. But little of this translates into action, they stay up till the wee small hours and get up late afternoon and don't achieve very much, they're very untidy (though both are musical and creative, as am I). I'd be very grateful for any advice on some kind of cure that might encourage them into action. The house is NE facing (N25*E), their bedroom is in the SW, S, SE corner, with the centre of the house just inside their door, the bed is in the S with the head of it to the SEE (I have no control over this space!). If it helps, our birthdates are:
Son : 12 Dec 1991 04.24 UK His girlfriend : 22 May 1990 00.15 Norway Me (Carly): 10 July 1959 05.30 UK Thanks very much for offering this opportunity Carly
The way to solve this problem is not use Feng Shui ON your son and his girlfriend. Anyway, as you've mentioned, you have no control over their space. Strategically, I would use Feng Shui ON YOU instead. Yes, use feng shui to increase YOUR leadership and communication ability. This will allow you to connect effectively with your kids and successfully persuade and motivate them to take action. If you improve YOU, you can lead them effectively and positively change them for the better.
Here's something you can do - on your birthdate this year - July 10th, activate the NE1 sector of your home. This is because July 10, 2011 is a very good date. Use 1.30pm local time. you can activate by performing spring cleaning at the NE1 sector. The more activity the better the outcome. This date will enhance the Nobleman star in that sector this month and will increase your confidence and leadership level. You will feel better about yourself too.
Then, on 11 July (another good date for you) between 11am to 3pm, you can begin to speak to your son about what action you want him to take. You can do this nicely of course. With your heart and good intentions.
If this works out, as it should, please make a small donation to a charity you support.
Warmest Regards,
Joey
