I am a male, living in the U.S, born 4/10/1983 in Israel. Can you tell me more about future in terms of love? What does my bazi tell me about my love life? To me, success will be if I find a female counterpart, get married, have kids ( the typical family). Obviously, I'm asking this because I'm single and haven't found my partner yet. Does Bazi tell me anything I need to know that can help me?
One of my friends friends, supposedly is a fortune teller, and based on my bazi, she told me that I will get divorced 3 times, unless I get married when I am 35. She also said that I have already met my potential mate. Can bazi be this specific?
Sure BaZi can help you. However, this requires YOU to also participate in making change happen. True enough you have a BaZi chart that is flawed in terms of relationships. BUT this does not mean it is not rectifiable.
If we follow the OLD style reading - then yes, your chart indicates divorce. BUT in our NEW style of BaZi Analysis - we look for the "cause" of this in your chart. We want to know "WHY" you cannot attract the right partner into your life. Knowing "WHY" is the first step. And this requires indepth study of your chart.
After you know WHY and have accepted the reasons, we can work on the "WHAT" and "HOW" to change. This is the hard part. I would recommend that you follow through a 6 month coaching program with a qualified BaZi coach to help you change.
A lot of your current situation is a result of your lack of SKILLS in attracting the right partner, lack of understanding your personality and your personal values, lack of knowing HOW to think and more importantly, you do not have a structured path to take to get to where you want to be.
Meeting your potential mate is merely the first step. BUILDING a meaningful and lasting relationship is the second. KEEPING the relationship health is the 3rd. You need to know how your chart operates in order to do this successfully. A short email reply like this is insufficient to help you understand the full picture.
I would recommend you engage a qualified baZi coach to help. It's worth it.
Warm Regards, JY
