Answered: 21 Feb 2006 at 12:19:42 AM
Dear Confuse, looks like you've reached a difficult time in your life. 'First, Life' (Yi Ming) refers to your BaZi chart; 'Second, Luck' (Er Yun) refers to the cycle of Luck you are going through in your BaZi; 'Third, Feng Shui' means that the Feng Shui of the house has to be matched to the BaZi of the person. We do have control over our own Destiny. While we cannot change certain things, there is still much in life waiting for us to achieved. Let me tell you about the famous 'Tian-Di-Ren', Heaven-Earth-Man. Heaven luck is what we cannot change, BUT by understanding what talents we have we can capitalise on them. We can also fix our weaknesses. Earth luck is our Feng Shui. Man luck is all our efforts in trying to succeed in life. Without Man luck, Destiny (Ming) is still incomplete. What I can advise you is to get your BaZi chart analysed by an expert. All you need is your birthdate and time. There, you can find out what your options are and how you should best approach a certain matter (health, wealth, relationships?). Perhaps you will also understand why certains things have happened to you, and then find the strength to look forward. Wishing you all the best. Sherwin