I came across a mole removal stall at a shopping mall. I have a small mole under my mouth on the left side. The chart says its unrequitted love, if i'm not mistaken. Well, I had been dumped many times before I got married. Have been married 16yrs and hubby's still frigid when it comes to showing affections.Worse still, our signs, elements and gua clash. We get along so long as I don't nag or stress him out. Should I have the mole removed?

Dear Jackie, maybe you should look at your BaZi. I doubt the mole itself is causing you problems. Gua numbers do not clash with each others'! Also, if you are referring to the year animals, they do not 'clash' each other this way. So no worries there. Any relationship takes tremendous effort, more so husband and wife. 16 years is something to be proud of. Cheers! SN