Thank you for sharing your knowledge of Ba Zi and Feng Shui to a lot of people, including me. I started reading your BA Zi books just this year. I've just got curious, I had Feng Shui and Ba Zi books from a lady author also from Malaysia, but when I saw your books in the shelf along side with hers, I started browsing them and found it more interesting, more convincing and more practical. You just saved me from buying more feng shui stuff which I thought could help me then. Actually, I've been buying her books for the last 10 years and now, I have more book collections from your writings than hers and planning to buy more of your books. 

 My inquiry is, do I need to choose an auspicious wedding date since I am living-in with my partner for almost 15 years already.?We plan to get married (for the first time) by 2013 but according to our bazi charts our spouse palace (both of us have "Hai/Pig") clash with Snake (2013). Should I take this Pig-Snake clash into consideration? 

 If 2013 is not good, is 2014 a better year? My partner's DOB is 8-28-69, 17:17. By the way, my relationship for the last 15 years with my partner is doing great and I'm praying that it will last tol our last breaths. 

 Thank you so much, I hope my question interests you. I've been searching for this similar scenario but I have not seen anything like this in the web. 

 Kind regards, CP

Thanks for reading my books and for your continuous support. 

My answers to your queries: 

The reason you would need a Date Selection would be to mitigate any possible problems between the couple's baZi chart. You don't need it if your charts do not have any incompatibility problems presently or in the future. 

For a lady's chart to have a 'clash' in their marriage year is not uncommon. Because traditionally, the women 'moves-out' from her family home and 'enters' the husband's home - which is symbolized by the clash. Hence, this is not a problem. 

Wishing you and your husband, a very happy marriage. 

Warmest Regards,

JY